Vegas Baby!

And...I'm back. I really can't believe it has been 3 months since I lasted posted something but trust me, I have plenty of reasons (read: excuses) why I haven't done so. Fortunately for you, I won't go into more detail on these excuses and instead I'll just get to more interesting topics, like Vegas. While there are certainly many changes going on with the house right now (and plenty of updates/pictures to come), I feel that a good Vegas story is much more important to talk about while it is fresh in my mind. With that in mind, here begins the story of my most recent adventure to Sin City...

So, last week I flew out to California from the East Coast to begin a nearly three week getaway filled with one bachelor party and two weddings (both of which I am in). After arriving in San Diego late Thursday night (minus my bag which didn't make the change of planes) I was able to get just enough sleep to charge my body (and mind) for the forthcoming weekend in Vegas. Fortunately my bag was by the front door when I woke up on Friday, and 14 hours after landing in San Diego I was on the road to Vegas.

The reason for heading out to Vegas was to celebrate the Bachelor party of my brother-in-law-to-be Matt. Given that I was the only one who was not a longtime friend of Matt's, I figured that made me Alan for this trip and I did my best to live up to any and all expectations that came with that role (rufilin and all). While everyone else was flying to Vegas, I decided to make the drive into the desert and lucky for me, I have awesome parents who let me borrow one of their cars. And not just any car, my mom's new Audi A4....SWEET! Going from driving a 1996 Honda Civic with power nothing and an am/fm stereo to a 2010 Audi was unbelievable to say the least. When I pressed the gas to go, I went...and fast.

Having made the drive to Vegas before, I knew there was a high probably of traffic if I left in the afternoon/evening (especially on a Friday) so I made a conscious effort to leave in the morning. Well, apparently I have been away from California for too long because even with an early start, I hit traffic. The thing I didn't understand, is why? I mean, where did all of these people come from and why the hell are they all out here on the 15 freeway? With plenty of time to think while sitting in traffic, I realized that the roadways were so crowded because there are a ton of people that actually live out in this part of the state - a fact that I find utterly crazy. Having worked in the construction/development industry while last living in CA, I saw firsthand how much growth was happening (or being planned) for the Riverside/San Bernardino areas and on the drive to Vegas I saw what the most current outcome has become. The fact that such large, sprawling cities like Corona, Norco, Fontana and Victorville even exist kind of blows my mind, because quite frankly, these places are shitholes. They are hot, ugly, suburbia desert-lands filled with big-box retailers and fast food, which to me makes it difficult in understanding why so many people have decided to take residence there. Personally, I'll take a little podunk country town on a two lane road over these places and their 8 lane wide freeway any day. At least in the country there are lush trees, open fields, wildflowers, local stores and a sense of appreciation for nature. Needless to say....I don't miss California.

After making my way through the wasteland known as the Inland Empire and finally through the long stretch of barren desert (which always provides me with at least one smile as I pass the Zzyzx exit), I made the ever-so-exciting drop down the hill into Las Vegas. It truly is a site to see (especially at night with all of the Vegas lights lit up) as one comes over the hill and sees the city rising out of the desert floor. With so much excitement to finally be in Vegas I didn't mind being stuck in traffic once again as I worked my way to the exit, and then again as I inched my way down The Strip.

The hotel we stayed at is the Aria, which is located middle of the Strip between the Bellagio and Monte Carlo. The hotel is the most recent hotel in Vegas to open and it is part of the larger City Center development - an $11 Billion project still nearing completion. Needless to say, the hotel (and City Center as a whole) is awesome and I immediately became a big fan. Even before setting foot in the hotel I was in love with the architecture and design of the hotel and surrounding buildings. The modern look and construction materials gave the place a feeling of sophistication and luxury, yet at the same time I felt very comfortable and natural in my surroundings.

Once inside I was continually amazed at all of the features and design elements of the hotel and casino. The hotel rooms are all electronically controlled, such that, upon entry, the tv and lights turn on to welcome you and the curtains automatically open - which in our room revealed an awesome view looking south down the Strip. After that, all elements of the room (including all of the iPod and audio/video hookups) were controlled by the push of a button or through the touchscreen control pad on the bedside table. Technological advancements aside, the hotel also did an excellent job with all of the decor, interior design and functional layout. I particularly loved the use of fabric on the walls rather than wallpaper (it was so fun to touch) and I even felt as though the paintings on the wall were a pleasure to admire and could actually be considered art. Oh, and I must not forget the bed which is one of the most comfortable beds I ever laid my body on. It supported my body in just the right way that I felt as though it were made just for me and to lay down for even 10 minutes was a very relaxing experience.

Outside of the room I spent many hours walking through the hotel, casino and surrounding shops/areas of the City Center (including the amazing Rodney Lough gallery) by myself admiring, touching and interacting with everything that was around me. And while I could go on for hours sharing about how great/beautiful/neat the experience was, I don't think many people love buildings as much as I do, so instead I will just say this - go visit! And speaking of visiting Vegas, I have a really hard time believing that our economy is in such bad shape given the number of people that I saw visiting. Sure, Vegas wasn't the most crowded I've seen but there were still tons of people walking around, gambling, clubbing, shopping, drinking and generally just spending money (such as with the line of over 100 people waiting an hour and half to spend $50 minimum to shoot a gun). Slow economy? Really?

As for the actual shenanigans of the bachelor weekend, let's just say that fortunately no one married a stripper, lost a tooth or had anything to do with a naked Asian man. We did however have a lot to do with gambling, drinking, gambling, drinking, drinking...and the aforementioned guns. I think the highlight of the trip (at least for me) was on Saturday night when we decided to do it up right for Matt and get bottle service at one of the clubs. Now, I'm not really much of a club person but I do love to dance, so in that sense I was very excited to be heading out for a night. Having never done such a night out before, I quickly learned that in Vegas (as is true in most places) a lot depends on who you know. Fortunately one of the guys in the group knew someone and after a few phone calls earlier in the day we had secured a table at Moon Nightclub at the Palms Casino. After a nice dinner at Sage (one of the restaurants at Aria) we took a limo ride across the freeway and made our way to the Palms.

Having arrived about 15 minutes before the club actually opened we had a little time to kill so a group of us all sat down to play blackjack. While the blackjack itself wasn't so exciting, it was nice to know that after 20 minutes of playing I could leave the table with the same amount of money I started with and have a free drink in hand. As we all were walking back to the club we passed the craps tables, and given that I LOVE craps, I felt this sudden urge to place just one bet. I walk up to a table with a lone guy shooting and I place a $25 chip on the field bet (which the shooter also was betting). The shooter quickly rolls and what do I see....double six. A 12. A "Pays Triple" 12! The dealer quickly stacks up 3 more $25 chips next to mine, I look over at the shooter, shake his hand with a smile and a "thank you", grab my money and I'm gone. Literally, this all happened within 30 seconds and the next thing I know, I'm checking in for our table with a huge smile on my face.

Now, bottle service isn't exactly cheap, especially in Vegas. Anyone who gets bottle service knows they are doing it for anything but the actual bottle of liquor itself. I mean, when you pay $450 a bottle for something that you just saw the day before at a liquor store for $40, you clearly are paying for something more than just the booze. One is paying for the experience...and man, what an experience it was. After checking in with the host, we were led past the line of 100+ people waiting to get in, past the people in the VIP line, and straight into the elevator which took us directly into the club on the top floor. Without ever having been to Moon before I had no idea where we were going or more importantly, where our table was at, but as we followed the host into the club, past the dance floor, past the other tables tucked away in some dark corner, and out onto the balcony, I certainly had no complaints. Next thing I know, the host points out our table and much to my enjoyment I find before me a table up against the glass with a panoramic view of the Las Vegas Strip. (See below for a general idea of what the view was like)


In all of my previous visits to Las Vegas, I had never strayed off the Strip, so to be in this environment, with this view, with this service, was truly a treat. To see the Strip from afar (from some 60 stories up) was amazing in its own right, but to then have the convenience of not waiting at bar, to have a place to sit, and to have awesome people to share it all with - that is the experience that one pays for with bottle service. While I certainly enjoyed my time at the table, I also made sure to enjoy the dance floor which I did until 3:30 or so as the club was starting to close down. Needless to say, I was the last one from our group still in the club, so after finally getting my fill of awesome dance beats and vodka I closed the chapter on my Moon experience and joined the guys back downstairs in the casino.

With everyone so happy and excited after a fun night in the club we stuck around the Palms to gamble for a bit as a group of us took over an entire table of Single Deck Blackjack. To me, there aren't many ways to enjoy a gambling experience in Vegas more so than taking over a Blackjack table with friends. Everyone is there rooting for each other, and in Single Deck, I actually feel like one has a chance of playing the odds a bit better - and ultimately staying at the table for awhile. After another hour or so at the Palms we all worked our way back to the Aria and given that I was up after my time at the table, I decided to call it a night (again being the first one in bed - at 5:30am).

At 7am my roommates all roll back into the room and at 8:30 I woke up (hangover free) and by 8:45 I was on the road back to Carlsbad in spite of the lack of sleep. Luckily, my mom's car has Sirius satellite radio and with it tuned to Channel 38, the electronic dance station "Area," I rocked out in the car for the 5 hour drive home. I felt almost as though I had never even left Moon and with that fact in mind, I had a really enjoyable drive (traffic free) back home. Once home I immediately hit my bed and passed out, knowing that another fun Vegas adventure was complete.

While I don't invision myself heading to Las Vegas any other times soon, I definitely feel like it is worth a trip if you haven't been recently (or at all). In walking around the town I noticed that Vegas really does attract every type of individual. With so many options, there truly is something for everyone - even if you just want to eat.

What more is needed for change?

While it has been almost a month since the start of the BP oil spill, the negative impacts of the oil are still being felt today - and they will continue to be felt months (even years) into the future. I mention this now because I just came across some really incredible/sad/devastating/upsetting/eye-opening photos of the impact the oil has had on the natural world around the Gulf of Mexico, and I wanted to share them with everyone.

As you look through the photos, try to think about what you can do to help stop this from happening again. While I made a post earlier about the overuse/dependence on plastic, I feel like I need to take this time to expand that thought to the dependence on oil as a whole. This is a serious problem and it is one that people need to actively discuss and work on changing. Although not everyone can go down to the Gulf and help clean up oil or save injured wildlife, we all have the power to decide how we spend our time and money. It is through these choices that we can all have the biggest impact.

Rather than just continue to live our lives the way we have grown accustomed to, take a few extra seconds (or even minutes) to really think about what impact our choices have and consider these questions. Is driving a car really necessary for that trip down the street? Is driving really needed right now, or can it wait for another time? Where is that bike of mine that I have neglected for too long? Do I need all of these items individually wrapped/bagged? Why don't I have a reusable water bottle? Where are my reusable grocery bags? Should I buy more since I always seem to forget them at home? Do I really need a straw with my drink? Is it that difficult and out of my way to recycle? Can I feel good about myself if I walk past plastic (or any trash) laying in the street right next to the storm drain, knowing that it will end up in the ocean during the next big rain if I don't pick it up?

The questions are endless but the idea is there - we all have the ability to make positive change. Sadly, we all (myself included) have the ability to make excuses too. But the more we live a philosophy of "do what we say" and stop making excuses, the better off life will be - for us and future generations. If one really wants to help make a change there is also the avenue of politics to pursue, as one can try to persuade the oh-so-lovable politicians of the city/state/country to make policy reform. Though, if that sounds like "too much work" one can always easily support non-profit organizations that are already working with governments to help improve our lives. Regardless of how one chooses to make change, the reality is, we (as a society) need to use far less oil and embrace alternative options for renewable energy (and OPPOSE ANY MORE OFFSHORE OIL DRILLING).

Needless to say (and with much sadness), the problems are not going to disappear any time soon. However, improvements (even small ones) can be made on a daily basis by each and everyone of us. After choosing to make a positive change in our own lives, the next step is to encourage all of our friends and family to do so as well. We can have honest, meaningful, intelligent discussion with them (with anyone) about why things need to change - and why it is something that everyone must do.

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has.” - Margaret Mead

"You may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one. I hope someday you'll join us and the world will live as one." - John Lennon

Progress is GOOD

I know I have been a bit lacking in my recent blog postings, but I've been a bit busy doing actual work on the house rather than just talking about it online. Several weeks ago I finally got all of the "art" supplies I needed and started hand-drawing the house plans required by the City (which include the existing and proposed floor plans and elevations for the house, as well as details on foundation and wall construction.) During this time I discovered that I really enjoyed drafting and hope to continue drawing up more plans in the future, even if I'm not actually working on a project at the time. After nearly two weeks of drawing I took my precious originals in for copies so that I could then face the wrath of Charleston's Zoning and Building Departments as I sought out the elusive building permit.

It was over this next week or so that I quickly learned firsthand how crappy and bureaucratic City policies can be. Before heading over to the Building Department for approval, I first needed Zoning to approve of my proposed plans - which at this stage is a small addition off of the back of the house. To my dismay, I was told I could not do things as I had planned because of the Pecan tree in the backyard. Apparently, the Pecan tree was the one who signed all the paperwork and bought the house because the way the City explained things to me, I didn't really have free-will to do as I wanted with what I owned. Instead, the tree had first priority over the property and the tree had to be considered before any approval was made. Now, as you are all aware, I am a very nature conscious individual and I want to protect/incorporate nature as much as possible into the home. The City does not need to be sending out employees to look at the property and tell me that I must save the tree - especially since getting rid of the tree was never even thought of.

After finally clearing things up with Zoning (which meant erecting a large tree barrier around the Pecan) I was ready move on to the Building Department, only to discover that they did not like the plans I had approved from Zoning. What issues they had with my plans were considered small technicalities in my mind yet the City felt the best option was for me to pay an engineer to do the plans (Read: not cheap). I just didn't see what the big deal was considering I had followed the building code book and had done things to a degree beyond what was regulated. After making the changes they suggested (without ever getting an engineer) I headed back to the Building Department excited to receive final approval. Well, either the plan reviewers made mistakes the first time or they just like to mess with my mind, but as I had the plans reviewed again they found a few more changes they wanted. Long story short....this happened 4 more times! Every time I went in they would come up with new "mistakes" that I needed to change, and most of the time they didn't even look at the previous changes I had made. Anyway, after numerous trips to the City Building Department I finally got what I wanted - a building permit.

I received the building permit on the morning of May 6, and it was that evening that my parents flew into town for what was to be an 8 day work marathon. Needless to say, it's a good thing I got the permit when I did because once my parents landed it was non-stop progress from there. The next day, Friday, I woke up earlier than I had months, picked up my parents and then headed to the house to begin work bright and early. Priority one was Operation Protect The Tree since a city inspector was coming out later in the day to make sure the barricade was properly in place. Since this barricade was a prerequisite to doing any other work (of which we had a lot planned for the upcoming weekend) I really wanted to make sure it was done well. I also spent much of the morning getting rental supplies and doing prep work/planning before we got going on all of the real physical work. Needless to say, once all the prepping was done, it was work, work, work....and man, did we get a lot done.

For the next 8 days my Dad, Mom and I worked 10 hour days as we focused on getting the addition added to the existing house. While each day had a lot of work to get done, we met our daily goals and overall had everything work out very smoothly. In summary, here is what was done each day:

Day 1 - Planning, site prep, demo of the back exterior and continue demo of kitchen (which Sean & I started in April).
Day 2 - More demo work, jack up house and hand digging of all foundation trenches
Day 3 - Setting up forms for foundation footings/walls and getting all rebar in place
Day 4 - Pass inspection (yea!), finish last details of forms, pour concrete
Day 5 - Construct floor joists and install subfloor sheeting
Day 6 - Start framing of new walls
Day 7 - Finish wall framing, begin roof framing, begin installing wall sheathing
Day 8 - Finish roof framing (and sheathing)

While I was extremely tired (and sore/bruised/bloody) after each day of work, I am very happy with all of the progress made. Actually seeing the physical changes accomplished is a great way to avoid thinking of the pain and certainly a positive step in restoring the house to a beautiful home once again.

With Day 9 being my parents last day in town I was able to convince them that we needed to enjoy Charleston a little bit, so we only worked 3 hours in the morning (during which time we tore done the back dining room wall). Once we called it quits for the day (and reached the end of my parents "working" trip) we went to enjoy the Charleston Farmers Market and get some excellent breakfast (crepes and omelets) and fresh lemonade (buy the Jumbo size, it's that good!). By the time I was driving my parents back to the airport later in the day all 3 of us were completely spent - both physically and mentally - and sleep was likely the only thing on our minds.

All in all though, it was a wonderful visit from my parents as we certainly got a lot done and made excellent progress. Needless to say, I owe a lot to both of them and I am forever grateful for their help, suggestions and overall support - although an extra thanks needs to go out to my dad who knows SO much about building and who taught me a lot during his visit. What we accomplished in just over a week would have taken me at least a month without him, so, in short...Thanks!

Here are some pictures of the work accomplished each day (captions are listed below each photo).

(Morning of Day 1)

(End of Day 1)

(End of Day 2)

(End of Day 3)

(End of Day 4)

(End of Day 5)

(End of Day 6)


(End of Day 7)


(End of Day 8)


(Last Day...right before the Farmers Market)

Add Some Bounce To Your Step

I love music! By no means is this anything unique, but I just wanted to share that I feel such euphoria when I have some choice tunes blastin' through the speakers. Music is such a wonderful art to appreciate on many levels and in most all occasions. There aren't many hours in the day when I don't have something playing on the computer or from my iPod. I really don't understand how people can live without music in their daily lives as I feel they are missing out on so much talent and beauty. Music truly does provide the soundtrack to our lives and I feel it can have such a positive effect on each one of us - from an unborn child to the oldest of grandparents.

When I first wake in the morning it is such a joy to turn on some fun beats and get my day going with uplifting tunes. There are few better ways to start the day than with a smile and appreciation for the talents of others. With such a great variety of music out there I feel everyone can find numerous artists who will feed one's soul and fill one's heart with happiness and good vibes. Whatever your choice may be, when you are filled with such good energy, not only will you be in a better mood but you will be radiating this outward for others to embrace as well.

Recently I have made it a habit to take my iPod with me whenever I head out the door for a trip through town. Regardless of the destination, I find my journey much more enjoyable with music in my ears. A lot of times I'm heading out on my bike, be it for a long leisurely ride around town to enjoy the Charleston sunshine or a 10 minute ride up to Cypress Street. However, my favorite time to bust out the iPod is when I take Riley for a walk downtown. While there are many reasons why it is now a regular activity to put on some dancin music and hit the streets with my best friend, two stand out the most.

For one, listening to music makes me smile. And when I walk down the street with a huge smile on my face, it's a lot easier for strangers to smile in return (unless of course you live in NYC, in which case people think you are a weird creep for smiling at them, let alone looking at them in the first place). A smile is the easiest gift to share with others and you never know how much someone else might appreciate the simple gesture. With each smile you send love, kindness and positive energy to those around you - and we all can use more of those things.

Secondly, having music flow through my body makes me move with an added bounce to my step. I've got my head bobbin, my hands moving and I'm light on my feet. I feel as though I'm no longer walking but instead dancing down the street. The movement alone from dancing is another great way to fill one's body with good energy, and I think others pick up on this as they pass by. Even Riley seems to be lighter on his feet and in a happier mood as we head down the streets of Charleston.

Now, with a smile on the face and a bounce in the step, it is virtually impossible to not enjoy one's self. To make things even more enjoyable, I like to take my time and really explore Charleston on these walks. Even though I have walked these streets numerous times, I feel it is nice to have no set route and "get lost" in my own town. I try to take different routes each walk and get somewhere without ever really knowing where I am going. One of the best ways to do this is to literally take the signs as they come. If I get to an intersection I usually go whichever way has the "Walk" sign showing and take the path of least resistance. It's nice to let go of control a bit and have the Universe lead me forward. You never know what experiences you may have, what sights you might see or what person may come into your life.

I strongly encourage everyone to take the time to explore their own town too and to do so in as happy a mood as possible. Put on some great music and let it fill your body with peace, joy, kindness, love and positive energy. Forget your worries and notice all the beauty that exists in life. Take all of this and share it with others through a smile or acknowledgment of some kind. It's amazing what one can feel from the brief connection made with eye-contact and a smile. We all are of one family, one being, so love and respect everyone in life with infinite peace and kindness. Spending time each day in this manner has the potential for many great things and one might start to see the commonplace in a bright new light for the first time.

As a suggestion, some of my favorite artists to listen to while dancing down the street are: The New Deal, Pretty Lights, Shpongle, Telepath, Eliot Lipp, and Sounds From The Ground. I recommend everyone check them out (and buy a CD) and I hope to see you smiling on the streets some time soon :)

Really Plastic? Really??

There has to be a solution to our plastic problem in life. You know, the problem of having EVERYTHING come in or with some form of plastic. I mean, it is a little ridiculous to see just how much plastic there really is. And most all of this is just plastic waste that has a very short intended life/purpose before it gets discarded. The worst part of it all is that plastic does not go away.

Sure, we don't see it any more, but it's still out there. Any plastic that is not recycled or repurposed just sits buried in the ground doing nothing! It does not break down like paper products or other organic matter - it just sits and waits. What does it wait for? Well, at some point somebody in the future is going to be digging in the ground (say, to plant an organic garden) and they are going to find this plastic that has been waiting. By this time it may have separated into smaller pieces, but it is all still there - only now it is a lot harder to clean up.

I have witnessed this problem first hand recently as I entered into the dark underbelly of my house's crawl space. I knew there was a lot of trash to clean out from first looks - I mean, a couple tires are easy to see, but I never expected to find so much plastic. While the soda and water bottles were fairly easy to pick out and put in the recycling bin (it's never too late - see photo below) it was all of the wrappers and bags that were far more difficult to remove. Just finding them is hard enough as they have become buried in the ground over the years. With each rain the crawl space of the house would flood with water and when it finally went away, the plastic would settle further and further into the mud. The plastic has also become entwined in the far-reaching roots of various plants that have spread out along the ground. As I pull up each group of roots I am greeted to an unnatural crinkle sound only to pull out some wasted food bag. I don't know how long some of this waste has been under the house, but I venture some items have been there as long as I've been alive.



While it is not the easiest thing for one to control the use of plastic in the world today, it is VERY EASY to control what one does with the plastic acquired. To me, the best way to combat the plastic problem is to follow the advice we have all heard many times: Reduce - Reuse - Recycle. These steps are listed in priority, as the first way one can help is to simply acquire less plastic; reduce your use. Stop using plastic bags when shopping (there is no excuse not to have numerous reusable bags by now, at least for the grocery store); avoid purchasing items that come individually wrapped and instead buy in bulk; invest in a reusable water bottle and stop buying the bottled water (even if you live in SoCal where the water does suck). I could go on with ways to acquire less plastic, but I think the point is made clear - use your purchasing power to buy less.

The next step to take is to reuse. So you forgot your reusable bags at home and are stuck with a plastic shopping bag, assuming you bought more than you can just carry by hand. It happens, but make a point to find another use for these bags. All you dog owners can come up with at least one use for them, but the bags also work great for lining small trash cans in the bathroom or bedroom. Plastic bottles can be used for arts and crafts projects, and turned into such things as beautiful flowers. Lastly, if you still end up with some plastic, please at least recycle it. I know no one is perfect, but if everyone made a conscious effort to be more aware of their choices/habits, I think we will all be living in a much better place.

Even if you are very responsible with your plastic, it's clear that not everyone else is. With that in mind, next time you see plastic (or any litter) on the ground, please spend the 3 seconds to stop, pick it up, and dispose of it properly. For those of us who live near a body of water, a lot of litter left on the ground ends up in our local river, ocean, harbor, lake, etc. Nobody wants this, but then again, nobody really wants to go around picking up trash after other people. Regardless, make the decision to be a better person and help keep this planet a great place to live. We really do only have one place to live, and as we already are witnessing, a lot of little waste can really add up.

Howlin' at the moon

So the other night I was driving through east Texas (which by the way is SO much better than west Texas) when I noticed a huge, beautiful orange sphere glowing low on the horizon. At first I didn't know what exactly it was until I realized that I was looking at one of the coolest (nearly full) moons I have ever seen! Since I was driving east I was fortunate to have a great view of the moon as it worked its way ever higher into the night sky. While the moon slowly faded from orange into yellow and then it's usual white color, I couldn't help but feel a sense of amazement as I watched the moon move across the sky and light up the road before me.

Personally I take great pleasure in watching the moon "change" as it rotates around the Earth throughout the lunar cycle, and I encourage everyone to do so as well. I feel it is especially important to pay attention to the moon's phases (note the lunar chart to the right) because the moon directly impacts each one of us on the individual level. Whether one believes in Astrology or not, there is no denying physics. Just as the moon affects the tides and bodies of water (as people in Charleston are well aware), it also effects the human body - which is about 60% water. One's feelings, moods, thoughts and energy are all influenced by the moon and it's position in the universe at any given time. Take note of how your body changes over the course of a lunar month and start to notice how various things in the universe are all connected. It's a great feeling to see the connections that exist and feel a greater sense of one's presence in the world around us.

This beautiful sight soon led to a conversation between my brother and I about how exactly the phases of the moon come to be and what exactly is going on in the mysterious world of "Space". I mean, how did that rocky orb in the sky get stuck in sync with this planet and why does it all work the way it does? Just think, any small number of tiny changes during the creation of the Universe could totally have eliminated the possibility for life on Earth. Instead, we are fortunate to have this wonderful, amazing planet filled with beauty and life for everyone to enjoy. I just hope there are more people who have the awareness to realize just how lucky we are to have Earth as she is, and eventually everyone will start treating our home with more respect.

Why does this life all exist? I'm not exactly sure, but while the super smart physicist try to figure this all out, I'll just relax in peace and enjoy the wonders of the universe as they reveal themselves each day. It is a great feeling to accept the mysteries of life for what they are, and live in peace without knowing the answers to life's big questions. There is so much beauty and positive energy to embrace in life that I am content to live without knowing the "whys" of it all. The only thing that matters to me is that the greatness in nature and life does exist, and that I am able to enjoy it on a daily basis. Is life really so complex that there has to be some grand purpose to it all? Or is the "purpose" really to embrace each day, to truly live each day, and enjoy that which is around (and in) us all?

77 Cypress

Well, after many weeks of anticipation, today was the day I finally closed on the contract to buy my first house. From the moment I walked through the house, I had good feelings about the property. Even better, I had wonderful visions of what the house would look like when it was all fixed up again. While the house needs a lot of work, this is exactly what I want to do in life right now and I truly look forward to the months ahead.

As for the house, it was built sometime in the 1930s and fits wonderfully into the historic character of many Charleston neighborhoods. I love the architectural style of the home and the layout of the rooms is very comfortable. The front porch has an inviting feel to it and I expect to spend many evenings relaxing on it in a porch swing. Even better though is the wonderful backyard with a beautiful pecan tree and plenty of room for Riley (and his friends) to run around. Once I add a screened porch and a new deck, I will be living out there and enjoying nature as much as possible.

It is my intention to restore the love, character and good vibes this home once had - and to do so in a very sustainable manner. I plan to keep or reuse as much as the original materials as I can, and to recycle/donate those things I no longer desire. All new construction will embrace sustainable materials and practices, and I aim to bring as much of the natural world outside into the home. I will try to update the blog frequently with progress reports on the house, so check back often. In the mean time, here are some pictures of the house as of today. Peace and love on to all on this wonderful day!

A season to reflect upon

With today being the first day of Spring (yea!) I feel it is an important time to reflect on how each of us also change with the seasons. For many plants and animals, Winter is a time for dormancy - a time when the pace of life slows down and the Being goes into survival mode. This is no different for people, who spend more time indoors as they avoid the cold/wet/icy weather - weather that seems to have been unfavorably persistent in sticking around for longer than usual this past Winter.

For many in Charleston, Winter is a time when work (and income) slows down due to the lack of tourism. Numerous friends have referenced how they are just "trying to survive" as they hole up at home with television, movies, video games and cheap booze. Perhaps they may even be suffering from SAD, a condition brought to my attention and discussed by a good friend (thanks Caitlin). Well, if this weekend is any indication, people have embraced the Spring season with open arms as they flood Marion Square with their beach towels and sunblock, and take to the streets of downtown. I already see more tourists in town and an increasing number of friends are working more hours or finding new places of employment.

While it is good to be physically active again and enjoying the warmer weather, I think everyone should reflect on the mental/emotional changes going on in life too. Just as Spring is a time for new life and growth in the phyiscal world, I think there is much to be said about such changes in the non-physical world as well. What ideas, hopes, dreams, intentions would you like to see fulfilled in the coming months? What budding thoughts do you want to give life to and see grow into something more? Reflect on these and then nourish them until they become as full of life as any tree or flower you see blooming outside.

Just as animals come out of hibernation and find themselves new homes (often for their newly expanded family), I also think we too need to spend some time focusing on the home. Sure, we may not be moving into a new place or adding more family members, but I still feel it is important to provide a nice, healthy environment in which to live. I believe this also allows our new ideas and intentions the proper place to flourish and succeed. The phrase "Spring cleaning" is often used around this time of year, and I feel this is due to a very natural part of our Being - a part that many of us may not even realize is speaking to us from deep within. As one "cleans up" after the doldrums of winter, do so not just in the physical sense but in your mental/emotional life as well. Rid yourself of the negative energy that restricts the flow of life, and instead flood yourself with positive energy that encourages growth.

While the sunshine and warmth may not be here every day yet (or even at all for some), embrace each day of the Spring season. Life needs both sunshine and rain to grow, so accept any rainy days for the cleansing nourishment the rain brings, and appreciate it for it's own beauty and joys. Besides, these sunny days feel so much better after "suffering" through a day or two of grey, cloudy skies. As the weather gets nicer though, I encourage everyone to spend as much time as possible outside in the natural world.

While the pleasures of a nice hike, a weekend camping, a day at the beach or a picnic in the park are certainly enjoyable, I understand they may not easily fit into the busy schedules so many of us have created. If nothing else, at least try to spend more time walking places (all dog owners know your dog would love to go on more walks) or, if it's "too far," get on the bike. Spend time at a local farmer's market rather than a local grocery store; sit down outside your local coffee shop (Starbucks is not local by the way, even if you live in Seattle) to enjoy the outdoors; eat more home-cooked meals on the back patio or deck if you can.

Whatever you decide to do, do more of it outside and connect with the natural world. Remember, the natural world should not "surround us" since we are part of it and should be immersed in it. And as you spend more time within nature, notice how the "natural" plants and animals change as we move more into the Spring season and closer to summer. See if you can find relationships about what they do, how they change, what effects the changing of seasons have on them - and how it is all very similar to each of us as well.

What's in a name?

I wanted to explain a bit about the name I have given my blog, Naturally Phine. In short, I am inspired by two things that I feel have far reaching implications and importance in life - Nature and the Greek letter phi, φ (which represents the Golden Ratio).

Regarding nature, I think it is very important for each one of us to remain in contact with the natural world around us all. Nature is in our DNA and as human beings we too are creatures of the "natural" world just like any other plant, animal, element or form of energy. We must understand and respect the greatness of Mother Nature, and cherish her for providing all of the life giving necessities we truly need to enjoy this beautiful world.

While there are many wonderful creations and advancements made "unnaturally" by the hands of man, I feel it important that everyone still maintain a connection with the natural world. Nature is what sustains life and enables us all to live. As such, we must continue to stay connected to nature because the powers of the natural world are uniquely nourishing to the individual Being. People need to embrace nature and not just surround themselves with the creations by man. I truly believe that the more people surround themselves with nature, the better they will feel and enjoy living.

As for the Golden Ratio, phi, I feel it is a wonderful number/idea that has many interesting applications and properties. To me, the Golden Ratio is a very naturally number that appears to fit into the universe quite nicely. It is clearly present in life through many different forms and I believe it is a number that needs to be embraced for it's unique qualities. I believe that if things are created in respect to the Golden Ratio then they will be turn out well - they will be fine (phine).

It is my intention that living a life aware of and respectful to both nature and phi will be good to me and provide all that I could hope for. There are endless amounts of love, happiness, peace, kindness, pleasure and fun for all of us to enjoy - we just need to open ourselves up to bringing them into our lives. I hope to share with others how I feel everyone can live a life that is better than anything they currently know. Once we live each day full of such wonderful feelings, we will be living a life that is Naturally Phine.

Why Am I Here?

Greetings to all of you who have come to my (first) blog. It is my intention that this blog be a place to share thoughts, updates, insights and meaningful information with others. Do what you will with what I provide, but if nothing else, at least give some of your own thought to what you find here. Also, I hope that everyone who comes to view this page will become more aware and thoughtful about the choices made in life. This includes choices that each one of you make as individuals as well as the choices made by others. Choices are ultimately what determine the future, so think about the choices you make now and if they are helping to create the future you want later.

I believe we all have the ability to make decisions in life, however, often times we are not always presented with the options we would like to choose from. Regardless, we still must make choices on a daily basis in order to navigate through life. Given the interconnectedness of the universe, often times choices made by other people directly impact us on the individual level as well. While you may not like the choice(s) the other person made, there is nothing you can do about changing that instant in time. However, from that point forward, you can decide what you want to do next. Do you want to let someone else's choices continue to affect your life, you future? Do you want to just accept things as they are, even if things are bad? Or do you want to embrace the fact that you get to decide what to do next? Everyone has the ability to create the future they want - and this is done through choices.

One choice I have made is to create this blog as a place for me to share the decisions I make in life. While some of my choices may not be accepted by all, I feel the most important aspect is that I at least accept responsibility for the choices made. I encourage others to respond with their own personal thoughts and insights as well, so long as each one also owns their decisions in life. Accept responsibility for what is yours, yet at the same time, do not accept responsibility for that which you have no control. Each one of us can only live the life that we are afforded as individuals, so do what you can to make your life exactly what you want it to be.

Why am I here? I am here because I want to share. Perhaps if I'm fortunate, you will embrace what I'm providing and share it with others as well. Ultimately though, what you do with my offerings is up to you - just remember, the choice is yours.